Review
An empowering, beautiful and poignant take on resistance – the force that creates the gap between intention and action. The final third of the book didn’t feel as practical and precise as the first two. I left the book feeling like I’d just spent two hours with a palm reader who said a bunch of stuff, some of which hit but most didn’t, and I left a little put off by the mention of higher powers and spirits – not my thing.
Key Takeaways
The 20% that gave me 80% of the value.
- All that matters is that on this day, for this session, you overcome resistance.
- Resistance is what stands between the life we live, and the un-lived life within us
- Yielding to resistance deforms our spirit → makes us less that we could be
- Resistance is invisible but it can be felt. It’s the force that prevents us from doing our work.
- Resistance is internal. Self-generated, Self-perpetuated.
- Resistance will tell you anything to keep you doing your work. It will assume any form, if that’s what it takes to deceive you.
- Resistance never sleeps, the battle must be fought anew every day
- Be ruthless with others once you make your break
- You can turn the table on resistance.
- Casting yourself as a victim is the antithesis of doing your work.
- Unplug yourself from the grid → do your work instead
- This is the despair of freedom. You are free only to the extent of your own self-mastery.
- Self-doubt can be an ally of resistance.
- Any support you get from anyone else is monopoly money → you have to do your work.
- Rationalization is the right hand man of resistance → it keeps us from feeling shame → from seeing ourselves for the cowards we are for not doing work
- If resistance couldn’t be beaten there would be no Fifth Symphony
- Commit full-time. Dedicate your life to it. Turn pro.
- Resistance hates it when you turn pro
- I know I can indulge in daily crap for a little while, but I must cut if off when the bell rings.
- You have to know how to be miserable
- Show up everyday, and stay till the end
- If you’re not going to quit, be happy. You’re where you want to be.
- Taking the blows is the price for being in the arena. Stop complaining and be grateful.
- Be patient: understand delayed gratification
- You won’t tolerate disorder, you’re on a mission. Eliminate chaos.
- Concentrate on the technique
- Accept no excuses
- Respect resistance, don’t cave in today or you’ll be twice as likely to cave in tomorrow.
- Be prepared each day to confront your own self-sabotage. Be ready to absorb blows and to deliver them.
- You dedicate yourself to mastering technique, so you’re ready when inspiration / opportunity comes
- A professional can’t take rejection personally because to do so would reinforce resistance.
- Nobody is the enemy but resistance.
- Humiliation, rejection and criticism are external reflection of internal resistance.
- Maintain your sovereignty over the moment!
- No matter what happens outside your agency, you have a job to do
- Control your reaction, don’t take it personally, don’t use it as an excuse to fail.
- Don’t allow the actions of others to define your reality
- Nothing matters but that you keep working
- Make up your mind, and turn pro.
- Nothing else matter except sitting down every day and trying, because when we do we’re helped by allied forces (the muse)
- Invoke the muse (Steven says a payer before work)
- He wrote ten books before he got a buyer for one.
- He remembered the feeling of finishing his first book. He felt like he’d killed a dragon that had he’d been fighting his whole life. Nobody else noticed or cared. His friend advised him to start the next one today
- Angels know their stuff, they want to help us. You have to have to make a start to communicate with them.
- If you were the last person on earth, would you still do it?
- Do it or don’t do it
- Creative work isn’t a selfish act. It’s a gift to the world and every being in it.